Psychology

*PSYCHOLOGY OF ANGER*

I love this and I thought of sharing it.

A professor while teaching, asked his students.
“Why do we shout in anger? Why do people shout at each other when they are upset?”
The students thought for a while, and eventually one ventured; “because we lose our calm.” But the professor asked again, “why shout when the other person is just next to you? Isn’t it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice? Why do you shout at a person when you are angry?”
The students gave some more reasons but none satisfied the professor.
Finally, he explained, “when two people are angry at each other, there is a distance in their hearts, psychologically. To cover the distance, they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger and louder they will shout to hear each other through that great distance.”
Then the professor asked, ”what happens when two people fall in love?
They don’t shout at each other but talk softly, why? Because their hearts are psychologically close. The distance between them is very close.” The professor continued, “when they love each other even more, what happens? They don’t speak, they only whisper as they even get closer to each other in their love.”
“Finally, they even need not to whisper, they only look at each other and that’s all…”

So next time you shout at a loved one, know that you are creating distance between your heart and that person’s heart.
Please enjoy every moment of life. Love is very easy.
I hope this will help that someone who is as hot tempered as me.

 

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